Contributed by Jim Lutz (Owner: Arena Graphics, Inc. | www.arenagraphics.com)
As a small business owner I have my hands in a lot of things.  
Primarily sales, marketing and client relations, but also production, 
administration, finance, management - all of these on a small level.
One thing a very successful friend told me years ago that is so true
 - very few kids go to school wanting to be a "salesman."  We all have 
this picture of what salesmen look like - like the guy trying to sell 
used cars or selling cleaning detergent door-to-door.  Who wants to go 
to college to be a salesman??!!  But most men absolutely must have 
"salesmanship" to be successful in their careers.
I'm part of this 
Business Leadership Group that is hosted by Nelson Cooney (along with 
Chip Grange, Pat Ennis, Michael Winn, Eric Newquist, Paul Switzer).  I 
am learning so much from these men.  And one of the things I notice 
about each one of them is their "salesmanship."  Others might call it 
something different, but that's really what it is.  And the other thing I
 hear them mention A LOT is how the companies they lead are always in 
need of people who can be successful at "business development."  That's 
just a fancy phrase for someone who has good salesmanship and knows how 
to find new business opportunities, who knows how to interact with 
clients, who knows how to serve clients, etc.  Reality is, in many 
companies the highest paid people are the sales people.  
I've tried to teach all of the young guys I've worked with the 
importance of being able to interact with not only the other folks in 
the office, but also with clients and vendors.  I'm somewhat amazed at 
how little priority is placed on this skill while kids are in high 
school and college.  If nothing else, it's a skill they need to develop 
to successfully interview for most jobs.
I have a desire to see 
the young people I work with learn how to do a better job interacting 
with people in the workplace.  I see this skill diminishing among the 
next generation as they are busy on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, etc.  
And this is a skill that the men in my Business Leadership Group are 
having a constant need for in their own businesses.
